19 Nov Spiritual Bypassing – which reality are you living in?
Spiritual Bypassing – which reality are you living in?
Spiritual Bypassing is like an addiction… well, it is an addiction – it masks the reality of what you are living to do either of these things:
~ masks pain
~ hides your authentic self
~ shuts down your heart
~ you have a better than less than aura about you
~ denying your current reality
Spiritual by-passing could also be said to be called spiritual abuse in a term…. it can be used to hurt people unconsciously, shut them down, deny their reality and be very controlling. It can be the darkest of shadows – people see them in the highest light, but with the most over controlling subtle and sometimes not so subtle ways, people are cut, hurt and torn down.
If you are a spiritual by-passer, you will:
~ feel there is no other way but your way
~ shut anyone’s opinion/expressing their feelings down with a negative throw back
~ shut anyone’s opinion/expressing their feelings with a spiritual meaning/spiritual lesson/spiritual anything to make them wrong and you right
~ tell everyone your opinion but not be actually listening to what they are saying, rather listening to respond than listening to understand (this Ear Chakra week again!)
It is a very better than less than energy… it is a spiritual ego that doesn’t really heal and isn’t any better than a drug addiction or any other kind of addiction. So if you are focusing on what someone else is doing pouring sooo much energy into them and the issue without looking at your own stuff, (didn’t you read my don’t judge what you don’t fucking know blog the other day? http://realityawareness.com/2016/11/15/dont-judge-what-you-dont-fucking-know/) then you are ‘just as bad as them’.
Are you willing to wake up and remember you have fingers pointing back at yourself? It does not matter one single bit that it is spiritual egotiscal dogmatic beliefs – that ain’t going to heal someone when you are coming from this place. The ONLY thing that will heal someone is pure and utter COMPASSION.
COMPASSION for where they are at…
COMPASSION for what they are feeling…
COMPASSION for the acceptance of the complete situation, without trying to fix them at all….
Compassion – are you able to embody it?
P.S. Doors reopen for Trust Your Intuition in December – keep your eyes peeled if you really want to embody Compassion xxx