POV: Don't date a man that earns less than you 🔥

POV: Don't date a man that earns less than you 🔥

This one.. I learnt the hard way in my journey of becoming a Self-Made Millionaire 💸

It is fine at the start... and then as time went on, I couldn't figure out wtf was going on. More than once. Until I finally learnt and won't even go there now. #radaron 

The subtle remarks, the little daggers thrown in the night (words) that would shake me out of a flow that I found myself shaking my head in subtle shock back, that made me question myself and then shake it off, for it to only continue, get worse and happen again and again 😳

One night I woke at 2am... 2am is my red flag 🚩 2am is my Solar Plexus 💛 telling me that this relationship is not aligned. (Liver is 1am-3am - when I wake at 2am consistently - this is my intuition 'waking me up' to this is not aligned). 

For weeks, I was experiencing this and it only got worse and increased over time. One of my 2am wakes, I grabbed my phone to scroll the for you page on instagram as you do... and within seconds a reel: POV: Don't date a man that earns less than you... immediately I clicked on it and scrolled the comments, as I always do to get the vibe and understanding of it... 

'Yes, because, subconsciously they 'throw all their resentment and stuff at you'.' I dropped my phone... OMG.. that is EXACTLY what is happening. And I immediately fell back asleep.. if I hadn't 'got the message' I wouldn't have been able to get back to sleep like the previous nights. 

This. This one. 

Don't date a man that earns less than you 💥

It was from this moment, I said no more. I had tried again... silly me. 

But from this last experience, my standards are way high now. Too high for many I am 150 million % okay with that. I am not for the many. In any way. 

I had to work through my own childhood fears of 'not being loved by my family for being with a rich man' - or same - for being rich myself! I had a memory imprinted, when my grandmother made fun of me for 'being with a sugar daddy' (not that I was with one!) - but it stuck to me like glue and had to work through that too, amongst other things. Shame.. is simply other people's thoughts stuck in your aura - shake that shit off and live your god damn life Queen! 🔥 

Yes, I'd rather date a rich man, than a broke ass man. "Hearing a broke man complain about gold diggers is crazy. Why don't you worry about getting some gold first?" - becomingafemmefataleofficial 

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Yes, I am okay with being rich and single and having high value standards and this being my norm. I am okay being on my own until the tribe and vibe of people come into my sphere that match where I am at. 

Yes, I am more than okay in providing myself a lifestyle that I love, enjoying the fuck out of my life and living my dream life that I love single or not - than draining my soul with pointless relationship drama... there is more to life than that. I do not need a relationship to validate my existence or to feel loved and cared for to try and replace the unmet needs I received as a child. I take care of myself in all ways and love myself for this. 

After my last experience... my standards went sky high and haven't dropped. 

It is safe to say, my red flag radar is not 2am anymore... Any suitors I scan with a fine tooth comb and have 3 questions I ask them straight up if I am needing more clarity before going on dates that only waste the most valuable asset I have... my time. If you want these 3 questions, send me a message. 

High value women, have high value standards and hold them.. with ease. 

It is here... I stay 💛

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Love, Hannah 
The Life Purpose Queen 👑